AMTA Asking my boyfriend to make me orgasm
I (31F) and boyfriend (31m) have had this on going problem. I bring up how our spicy sleep isn’t spicing me. If he erupts then he lays on his back with a cheeky smile and it’s just over. If I give him oral to change it up he won’t do it back. If he does it to me he bothers me until I do it back to him. I’ve brought this up A LOT. We bought toys for him to use on me after so it’s not one sided he used it once. Lately we’ve been sober going to the gym. Both of us look physically better than we have our whole relationship. I just want to feel desired. He took me on a romantic date dinner on a boat last night. We passed out so I got up showered edged him for like an hour until he finished and laid there while he put his clothes on. I said you know that you could do that back to me. He said is that the only reason you did it? I said no, I love doing that to you. Then he just started watching videos on his phone. I waited.. nothing… then got up got dressed came back in and said next time we do this could it not be over when you finish. He said yea let me deal with every little problem you have in our relationship and see if i still want to be here. I said It’s just that he always orgasms and it feels like he never cares how much I don’t. He laughed at me so I walked away. I get maybe it hurts his ego. I also just am tired of not being taken care of. I hate even asking it gives me anxiety. His testosterone is also extremely low we had it tested twice now once was 60 and another time was 150. So I don’t know if i’m the ass hole for not being sensitive to this.