u/Builderman72

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People being too kind to me

Note: This is not a joke or attention seeking. This is a genuine question i would like an answer to. I am on the spectrum and i am having trouble on social interactions.

I feel like many people are being too nice to me and i do not know why. Of course you should be nice to everyone, but from what i observed in my life, not everyone is to each other, and that's where i ask this question.

Some examples would be:

(1) On my first day at work, a co-worker gifted me brand new work clothes i still wear to this day. (2) Last week as i was leaving work, an office lady approached me. She seemed very interested in my life and called me beautiful (her own words). She then told me she and her co-workers noticed me some time ago and they wanted to gift me something. I politely refused but she kept insisting. (3) Fry-cook/cashier offering me free fries, to which i thanked and refused. (4) Medical student helping and staying with me as i was having a nose-bleed on the street.

These were just a few from my head involving strangers. This is way too kind, like next level kindness, and i do not know what it means. It keeps happening every week and it leaves me confused every time.

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