u/Bulky-Effect8502

1. A woman should be an addition to your life, not the focus of it.
2. Watch what she does, not what she says.
3. The moment you stop needing her approval is the moment you become more attractive.
4. Some things stay private. Your past is one of them.
5. Being "really nice" and doing everything for her doesn't create respect. It does the opposite.
6. Ask yourself: does she want to get married, or does she want to marry you? There's a big difference.
7. Attraction is not up for negotiation. You can't talk someone into it.

Nobody sat me down and said these. I learned every one the hard way.

Which one did you have to learn the hard way?