u/Bulky-Scheme-9450

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I (34,M) and my gf (29,F) have been dating for 6months and have been planning to attend my cousin’s wedding in June. We will be flying from Detroit to D.C. I booked the itinerary in April.
Earlier today (May), she discovered that she has warrants from over the past few years (says she doesn’t remember the charges). I expressed concern that she wouldn’t be able to board the flight with those warrants in place.
She expressed that she would get the warrants taken care of before the trip in a month. She then asked if I would continue to board the flight if she were to be arrested at the airport.
I responded that I would continue to board the flight as it is her responsibility as an adult to have things in place & and we are not a married couple.
Am I wrong?

My brother and I both still live at home. He’s 22, I’m 20. He had his driving test yesterday morning and had been talking about it all week because he already failed once before.

The night before, he stayed up gaming with his friends until like 3am. Before I went to bed he literally said “make sure I’m awake by 8” and I told him to set alarms because I wasn’t planning on being responsible for him.

Next morning I got up for class around 7:30 and could hear his alarms going off nonstop. He kept snoozing them. I thought about waking him up but honestly figured he’d get up eventually because this test mattered to him.

He didn’t. He woke up at almost 9:15 and completely missed the appointment.

Now everyone in my house is acting like I sabotaged him on purpose because apparently I “heard the alarms and did nothing.” My mom says it would’ve taken me 10 seconds to knock on his door. My brother’s mad because now he has to wait another month for a test slot.

I kinda feel bad, but at the same time he’s an adult and it wasn’t even my appointment.

AITAH?