desperate for advice and thoughts
i live with my ex. he cheated on me once in the past, and i found out because i had a feeling in my gut that he did. i basically manipulated him and said i know you cheated and he started apologizing profusely for cheating. i gave him another chance because ive cheated in the past, and never have since. i was hoping it would be the same for him.
i found him clicking on a link through instagram multiple times a day for a few days in a row that brought me to a snapchat link. i’m not sure if it was a sex bot or what but when i texted her she was just offering her content and talking to me really sexually. when i confronted him he said i wasn’t cheating blah blah blah. i gave this man head daily and sex almost daily. i was open in every sexual way. im not trying to be cocky but i am hot. a tall skinny blonde with a cute bubble butt. i just don’t understand. i told him i was done, and he didn’t realize i was logged into his instagram on my ipad. (he logged himself in a while ago.) he was literally texting 4+ women a day practically begging them to link with him and flirting with them. i screenshotted all of the only fans content and women he was trying to link with and sent it to his mother, also telling her about how he cheated. i was asking her to help him financially move out.
he then texted her and basically said im crazy, and that he doesn’t need her help financially.
we now live together and i am begging him to leave. he keeps saying he’s looking for other places but it’s been like a month and he’s still got no potential living situation. he struggling with money. is it wrong for me to kick him out to the streets? he is on the lease. so i can’t legally kick him out. i just don’t know what to do. was it bad of me to involve his mom?? it seemed mean but also he is a cheater. how would you handle this situation? also do you guys have any coping skills on living with a partner you still have feelings for, but know it’s best to be broken up