Confused
I need some advice. I have had this co-worker for four years and her office is directly across from mine. I would consider her a work friend, but in the last few weeks we seem to have gotten closer. She has been coming over to my office to chat more frequently. She recently was in my office with another employee and I was looking at her while she was talking to the other person. She saw me looking at her, and she immediately got flustered and assumed something was in her teeth, but there wasn’t. She went to the bathroom to check, and she acted normal the rest of the day. She even came into my office later that day to chat.
Recently I noticed she has been walking out of her office and pause and then go back into her office. We also have been recently making eye contact more from our offices. She even recently made a joke about a sexual situation which I thought was out of character because she is normally very professional and business majority of the time.
Yesterday, I sent her a text message after work. It took her a little while to respond but she did. But when I got to work this morning, she got out of her seat and engaged me in conversation about the text message.
I have known this person for 4 years and the chemistry does seem different. There is a catch to this whole situation. We are both married. Let me know what you think.