Learning you’re small and your natural personality?
For the smaller guys on here, when did you realize/learn you were actually small? Was it like one event or like repeated things that made you realize it? How did it impact your life or your relationships? How did it impact how you see yourself or like your role/place as guy?
For me, I guess I started to maybe realize I was small around like 13-14, when my friends would talk about masturbating and how they would masturbate with like a full hand which was confusing to me because I had to use just fingers. I guess that was my first hint. Then when I got to college, we had communal showers and that is when I really learned because I like was around other guys who were all significantly bigger than me.
I have always naturally been more of a submissive/yielding personality like people pleaser, deferential, agreeable from a young age. I feel like when I realized I was small I became even more agreeable and submissive or the realization made me more embrace my like true personality instead of fighting it. It’s interesting like I don’t think my size is why I am more yielding and people pleasing but rather like just helped me embrace my natural personality. Can anyone relate?