r/penissize

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Stumbled upon this post from the sex reddit

> So my ex-by for 3.5 years was great, handsome, muscular, made good money, great with my sex, and was sexually amazing though maybe a bit too routine. He had a nice big thick cock and he could last forever, and was very rough, very good at oral, very good at kissing, seduction and foreplay. 9/10 in bed, I would usually always orgasm 2 to 5 times with him.

from reading the first paragraph, I'm thinking from the 'nice big thick cock' line this guy is like 8in+ or something

but reading down further...

> I think my ex was 6.5" and this new guy is 5" and maybe a bit thinner.

turns out the 'nice big thick cock' is...6.5"!.

Of course that's a objectively larger size but it was amusing to me that the standard I had in mind was probably just blown up from porn / social media

What dimensions come to your mind?

What’s your take on this? What is the female analogue to having a small dick? Women can comment all they want on dick size so I feel like this topic is fair game.
Here’s my take: women who can’t come from piv. It’s something that largely out of their own control, and makes sex much less desirable for me. Having a woman who enjoys piv and gets off on it, it’s hard to come off that and have a woman who can’t. Just my two cents

I wonder the guys and women in here to tell me what do they think about small dick energy. What are the signes that look for, and for the guys thinking themselves as small, do you validate these signes?

This makes me question myself and my size when people here tell me my dick size is not small (few girls in my past insulted me and I am depressed)...

When you type in some porn site for example x videos "small dick", a lots of videos of dicks bigger than 6 inches or 5-6 inches pops up and get tagged "small" and people in comment makes fun of that dicks. You can see comments like "its not THAT small". Jesus😭😭 we are cooked... and those "its not that small" or "its average" comments have a lot more dislikes than likes and people respond to that "whatever makes you sleep at night bro"...

I don't know, is it bunch of people having kink for humiliation or why is that? Are our average dicks really small and we would get insulted in porn sites too?

Like say a 4.6 inch girth vs 4.8/5.0/5.2/5.4 and so on.
I know every one of these makes a small difference, but at what girth difference is it like a clear difference where she would notice without even focusing on it?

FOR EVERYONE SHIT TALKING ME, REDDIT IS FUCKED THESE DAYS. CANT ASK THIS SHIT ANYWHERE ELSE WITHOUT MODS OR AI REMOVING IT, DEFINITELY NOT NO WOMENS SUBS. YOU THINK I WANNA ASK A BUNCH OF DUDES WITH DICKS THIS QUESTIONS INSTEAD OF WOMEN???

Sorry had to rant

Ovs many are lying to be socially correct. But do u think some are telling the truth. Are there women who actually get more sexually aroused by an average sized penis over a larger one?

So is it that most woman just generally can’t cum from PIV, or is it that most woman can’t come because they just havnt experienced a penis that is large enough (especially girth which apparently makes the bigger difference)

Until recently I was never concerned about my size (4.7x3.9) and have quite a fulfilling sex life. However, since I found out some things about my wife's previous experiences (with a ex who was quite a bit larger than me) and some surprising behaviours of a close friend of ours I am more selfconcious. In particular about how much size matters for PIV.

My concrete question. In porn I really like when the girl has a strong reaction to the first insertion (gasping/overwhelmed in a pleasurable way) despite going in quite slowly.
I was wondering if you get such a reaction, and if yes what size you are?

A bit more detail, my wife saw the same clip. I said it was hot, but I guess the actress is acting quite a bit. She didn't think so, and made a comment about her past.

(I am not having a crisis, just wondering)

PS: I am aware this also depends on the partner. I also don't mean when she is not ready, but is already arroused.

PS: I get this reaction when going full speed. Not when slow, or at first insertion. Apparently, my wife had such a reaction with her ex when he first go in

Are there any ways to actually increase your penis length

I guess I’m technically not small (7x5.5), but I still feel like I’m missing out from time to time. I just kind of feel like there are a lot of fun things I could’ve done if I had more, and less things to worry about. Two hands, helicopter.. Dare I say it seems almost flattering to be flagged by TSA. It’d be nice to not feel self-conscious at a urinal or in a locker room. And it would’ve been nice to have bigger balls

Mine is pretty big tbh (7x5.5) but its not even about that i just really like the idea of giving the woman 2 very different options to play with

I gain about 0.5-0.75 inches (about 2cm) from bone pressing. This clearly makes a big difference, but I can’t help feel like it’s cheating.

I’m not overweight, so it’s not like I have a big fat pad hiding things and if I just lost some weight it’d come out.

So If 0.75 inches of my dick is always hidden, why should that count towards the size?

What do you all think?

I understand that all women are different and have different preferences. Looking for some rough estimates that would be ideal for a majority of women. Or men. Both length and girth size ranges where you’ve optimized pleasure without causing pain.

I’m 5.7, and 4.6 G BP. Missonary and doggy our sex life is good, I even hit her cervix sometimes.

But during riding, she sometimes can not feel my dick inside. Is it because of my length/girth, or an angle/ anatomy/ position issue ?

It's a good day. I spent pretty much my whole life thinking I had a small dick. Not even kidding. I was always kinda insecure about it, just assumed I was below average.
Then I was with this girl and she made a comment about how big I was. I honestly thought she was just being nice lol. But she seemed genuinely surprised when I told her I thought I was small.
So I actually measured it for the first time. 9 inches. I measured it again because I thought I was doing something wrong.
Turns out I had absolutely no idea what average was. Kinda crazy I spent so many years being insecure about something that was apparently the complete opposite of what I thought. Sure the economy sucks but today I learned I have a big dick. Kinda cool.

Can someone with a small dick give off BDE

As it seems all I do is attract size queens

This is just through online hook up site

Hello everyone,
I’m sharing this story not to show off or anything like that. I mostly just need to get it off my chest, and I’m curious if anyone else has experienced something similar and how it made you feel.
I’m 32 years old, 190 cm (6'3"), and I’ve been overweight pretty much my entire life. At my heaviest, last January, I was around 150 kg (330 lbs).
I should also clarify that I started losing weight purely for health reasons. This was never part of my motivation, and honestly I wasn’t even thinking about my penis or expecting any change there.
For basically my whole adult life, I thought I had an average, maybe even borderline-small penis. When soft, only around 4 cm (1.6 in) was visibly sticking out, and erect I thought I was around 13 cm (5.1 in).
Looking back, I think there were a few reasons I believed this. I thought penis size was supposed to be measured only from the visibly exposed part, I’m a big guy in general—big hands, tall, etc.—so everything probably looked smaller in proportion, and, like a lot of guys, porn was one of my main references. Obviously that comes with a massive visual bias because of angles, performers, proportions, and all the usual tricks.
The funny thing is, I had completely accepted it. It genuinely didn’t bother me much. I bought toys and made a point of getting good at oral sex so that whenever I had sex, penis size wouldn’t really matter.
Thinking back, a couple of women I slept with actually complimented me. One said I was girthy, another said I had a nice cock, but of course I assumed they were just being nice. I basically didn’t believe them.
Anyway, since January I’ve lost around 30 kg (66 lbs).
Because the change happened gradually, and because I wasn’t really paying attention to my penis specifically, I didn’t notice how much smaller my pubic fat pad had become.
Then the other day I randomly had a hookup, and the woman told me I had a big dick.
I laughed and basically told her, “It’s okay, you don’t have to lie to me.”
She then pressed down on the remaining fat pad and said something along the lines of, “Dude, this is at least 18 cm (7.1 in).”
And that was the moment my brain kind of short-circuited.
The next day I measured properly, bone-pressed, and got 18.2 cm (7.2 in) in length and 13.9 cm (5.5 in) in girth.
I measured it several times because I genuinely didn’t believe it.
Then I went down the internet rabbit hole and realized that, while obviously it’s not some monstrous porn-sized dick, statistically it is definitely on the large side.
The funniest discovery was that apparently I’m not even much of a grower. The thing was basically just buried in fat. Even soft, I’m now around 13 cm (5.1 in) bone-pressed.
It honestly feels a little like waking up one day and discovering that a part of your body you had understood one way for your entire adult life is actually completely different.
And weirdly enough, it gave me a confidence boost. Which makes absolutely no sense, because before this happened I genuinely didn’t care much about my size.
But for the last week I swear I’ve been walking a little differently 😂
The other thing I’m now really curious about is what happens as I continue losing weight. I still have roughly another 30 kg (66 lbs) that I want to lose for health reasons, so I’m genuinely interested to see how much more my body—and especially the fat pad in that area—changes.
Anyway, I’d love to hear from anyone who lost a significant amount of weight and had a similar realization. Did it change the way you saw yourself? Did the confidence boost eventually wear off, or did it actually change something for you long-term? And if you kept losing weight afterward, did you notice even more change?