r/penissize

Yesterday, I was at a little alcoholic party. I talked to a woman and the power went well. When leaving the evening she came to my house to do what you guess. And when I took out my BWC she pushed me away and said it was too much for her. She left and I couldn’t even get her number. I’m sad, she had a very muscular ang titanic ass (like omniman for those who will have the reference). It has already happened to you too, personally I live this event a little badly 🫩.

no one thinks "big dick" and imagines a long but skinny penis, ZERO people. its not a desirable type of penis. it's 7 - 7.5 bone pressed but the girth is about 5 which is not noticeably above average.

i just feel like i have a length that stands a chance to hurt someone and then a really forgettable girth. who wants to feel their cervix getting pushed by a finger - no one. i feel small in the subreddits for posting dick pics measured everyone is thicker than me and it feels like i just have a badly shaped penis that's not satisfying at all. most women would prefer thicker. i have never had sex but i feel like i would be disappointing and bad at it

i don't believe that 5 or 6 is average, half of guys seem to have 7 while being thicker than me and the average is just skewed by outliers

Im 15 yo and when fully erected its 5'9 long. Is that above or around average?

My ex told me her old boyfriend was 3 fingers thick from the front shed 5'4 not biggest hands and she would say take a while to put in her vagina but she's naturally tight he would have to ram it in her and it would rip her a bit and also said it wasnt like that with other girls to her and she wouldnt like to give him blowjobs what girth would this be?

Just to include im 5.25 girth and 7.2 bp she said im longer but skinner then him and its easier giving me head and she hated it with him

My ex told me her old boyfriend was 3 fingers thick from the front shes 5'4 not biggest hands and she would say take a while to put in her vagina but she's naturally tight he would have to ram it in her and it would rip her a bit and also said it wasnt like that with other girls to her and she wouldnt like to give him blowjobs becsuse her mouth hurt and also she be sore after he rams it in and would have to go easy next time what girth would this be?

I'm curious how sensitive your glans are. I'm uncut and mines are really sensitive to where if I gently run a finger across it can feel overwhelming.

27M here. I fall on the spectrum of above average length wise but my girth is average to below average..

I want to know if anyone has discovered or has a positive perspective on being average to below average overall or with their length or girth? Please share all positive perspectives or coping mechanisms.

I just can’t see any positives to having average to borderline small girth. People call it skinny , and say it’s the only thing im lacking which drives me mad. I know there’s always someone with worst size issues than my own but this mine and I would love to discuss it.

So I’m from Europe and my size is 17cm long and 14cm girth, My girlfriend calls me huge, but I just feel like it’s not that big. Am I being insecure for no reason ?

I have a question about my size and my gf. When i f*** her i can go balls deep and still hit nothing. When I push in that deep she easily moans and cums, one time evem 3 times in a row. Does that mean my length is too short for her if i don't push in everything I got (it is uncomfortable and not pleasirable for me tbh? Also, when i am close to finishing she gets really horny and wet, she says it is because my dick feels girthier then. Does that mean bigger dick would be better for her and make her feel things I can't make her feel? Or make her cum more easily? With normal sex I can make her cum in maybe 30% of times, if I give her oral she cums in under 5% maybe and fingering is only painful for her. I feel like I can not satisfy her very well. I am 4.9 to 5" long and 5" to 5.5 in girth.

Edit: Often when I think i will finish I tell her, then she says ok. But after finishing she is upset and still wants to continue but I can not for at least 30mins to 1 hour. Then she is disappointed.

Hey, 27M virgin here. First time coming up soon and I’m lowkey nervous. I measured myself and I’m around 5.1” length and 5.5” girth. I know people online say all sorts of things, but in real life is this a normal size? I just don’t want to overthink it and mess up my confidence.

It's quite a fine line to tread for a partner who has never had a serious bf before. I'm my gf's first and she almost has no experience in anything sexual. I'm her first for almost everything, which is a nice thing. We've been together for a year now, but I didn't initiate anything sexual for the first few months. Was afraid that it might scare her off, esp when we were only just dating and not officially a thing.

The first time she saw my dick and jerked me off was almost 6 months after we first met. It was exciting and could tell her inexperience. She asked things like "Is this the right way?", though this question kinda shocked me "Does it get bigger or is it the max?". Anyone has similar experiences

Sooo found out my bf is a size queen, never knew that and now it's kinda messing with my head. Any suggestions on what to do or how to approach it?

Eu fiz sexo com uma amiga da escola e ela disse que meu pênis é pequeno 17cm (acho que 6 polegadas e meio) eu acho que é grande só que ela é mais alta e tem a bunda muito grande então acho que deve influenciar eu tenho 170 ela tem 177 e pesa 84kg de pura gostosura.

She’s reassured me before that I’m “more than enough” 6 x 5

But she’s told me a few of her past partners were longer and thicker

And that I’m her best sex

That feels great but personally knowing I won’t be able to stretch her the way she has been before makes me feel inferior in that department

Anyone know how to overcome this?

So my partner and I are late 20s early 30s and met online. When we started being intimate online he warned me he was small. Friends of his he introduced me to told me he was small as well (why they knew is beyond me). I didnt care. I told him he was handsome and size legitimately just doesnt matter to me. I love the person I love regardless of stuff like that. Well I always felt it was hard to tell from pictures but I told him from what I did see it looked average sized. We met in person a few times and I told him he is definitely the biggest ive ever been with after and kept telling him this. Even kept begging him to stop downing himself no matter what size it is because you shouldnt feel bad over your anatomy period. Well recently we decided to measure. He is 8 inches. But he just looked at me and looked genuinely confused. But still keeps calling himself small. Obviously body image therapy is probably the best bet here but I am so confused by this even more now. Is this more common because of pornography and unrealistic expectations on social media? Are there other men out there that feel insecure about this that have any advice on what I can do for him besides therapy? Ive asked him probably a thousand times since I've met him to please stop downing himself and it still persists.

One of my mates swears his continued use of a penis pump has resulted in him getting and increase in both length and girth. It just his BS or are they effective?

How did it come up and or how did they ask you? Or have you ever asked your friend their size?