Advice needed- How do I tell the guy im dating that he isn't as good in bed as he's supposed to be?
The title sounds mean I know, I F 20 have been dating this guy M19 for a couple of months now and it's all going perfectly, I mean he's hot and a great guy overall but there's just something I can't quite explain myself, he had a girlfriend before me so he isn't exactly inexperienced...or at least he shouldn't be, but for some reason he is perfect until it's time to "pet the cat", he can't find it like at all, not even close. I wanna know how I should approach the problem cos I don't wanna offend him or hurt his feelings by being too direct about it. And I know my anatomy isn't the problem cos I can do it fine by myself. Should I ask him to like watch some tutorials? I already tried to move his hand in the right direction but it only works for a couple of seconds and then he's lost again. I really like him and other than that he's really perfect, but I don't know how to approach the situation without being mean or sounding like he's shitty.