Divorcing on Grounds of His Adultery. What Should I Expect?
Married 27 years. Separated for seven months after I discovered he was in another long term relationship with another mistress (forgave him and rebuilt 10 years ago for the same behavior with a different mistress). When he moved into the condo we recently bought, I was 95% sure the separation would lead to divorce; 5% open to a miracle because he said he would be “working on himself” during the separation. Found out this week he and the mistress have been dating, traveling, and doing couples excursions since he moved out. They have a trip planned for Belize this summer. I’m obviously now 100% certain that I want a divorce. I have proof of money he has sent her, flights they’ve booked together, their hotel booking for Belize, and photos of them on weekends away. In the divorce agreement I want the marital home, him continuing to pay the mortgage, half his 401k, to remain on his medical benefits because I have a medical background (breast cancer survivor), and to remain as the beneficiary of his life insurance policy. He is already getting nasty about the things I am requesting, so we will likely have to get attorneys involved. From anyone who has divorced on grounds of adultery, what is the likelihood that this will all go in my favor if it ends up in court? We live in Georgia.