u/ButterscotchOpen1564

How can I make my hair look flatter, straighter, and less frizzy without it looking wet or greasy? Right now, when I wash it, it gets really puffy. But when I don’t wash it for a couple days and there’s some product in it, it looks more controlled and flat, which I prefer. How can I achieve that same look consistently even after washing my hair? I attached 2 photos, the one in the room is after I washed it, and the one in the one with my hand behind my head is the one where I hadn’t washed it in a couple days.