Relationship between JW and not-JW?
Hi
I am in a very weird situation
I grew up in a JW family, but was never baptised. When i was 18 i met a boy in our community and fell in love with him. He was way more involved in the religion i was, but he was still an introverted outsider like me. I hate being cheesy but this guy is my soulmate. But however - as it is we were expected to already think about getting married, i cant deal with pressure and both of our mental health was really really bad at the time.
I ended the relationship mostly because of the religious issue.
After that i finally admitted to myself that i dont want to be a JW and life my own life.
Time passed and now, 6 years later, i texted him again, just curious how he is doing.
Unfortunatly he is still involved in the religion (not baptised yet but wanting to at some point)
I didnt expect my feelings for him to come back that suddenly and intensly after such a long time. But it happend, we fell in love again.
He said that he would accept that i am not involved in any JW stuff at all as long as we can still openly talk about everything. I said that i will always give my honest opinion on things i disagree.
He is a very openminded person in contrast to all other JW
The question that i am having now:
Could a relationship with him ever work? Or is it completly delusional to believe this will not end in a disaster?
If you have any experience or advice pls let me know ♡