u/BuyBrilliant4453

don’t know what to do… my one of my doormen is a little socially awkward and follows me on instagram. i’m a young almost 30 year old female, who’s single and living on the UWS. the doorman will DM me here and there checking in how i’m doing or just wish me a good day. I went to a gala all dressed up the other week and he said I looked beautiful as I was leaving and then asked me for a photo of myself. he then DM’d the same night complimenting me on my appearance and has followed up three times asking for a photo of me. I am deeply uncomfortable. what do I do? I feel like telling the super is last resort and i’d like to avoid if possible