AITAH for feeling betrayed about not getting invited to a trip?
We planned a Japanese trip for years with one of my friend, knowing it's on the bucketlist for both of us. The last talk about this was exacatly a month ago, about a hike on Mt. Fuji. Today morning he sent me a pic from a Japanese shop. I was speechless not understanding what is that, and sending another. He went to Japan without saying a word and when I asked he was just "Don't tell me I didn't say it".
Even if he didn't wanted invite me he had to keep it secret for a while now. I usually invite him to hiking or drinking and now i'm questioning myself that if he didn't wanted me to go with them, I was just forced myself on him this whole time?
IATAH for thinking about ending the friendship, or i'm just overreacting?
*Edit: Forget to clarify, I'm not wanting to thirdwheeling, it's not a family trip, or a romantic one, just with a buch of friends.