my partner relying on testo
problem: my partner relying on testo for emotional stability.
context: hello! i’m 21f and my partner is 22, transmasc. i met him when he was 1 month on testo na. 8 months after, he stopped due to financial restrictions since student pa lang siya.
my partner is very sensitive in nature; he loves animals, he’s pure hearted, good at picking up my mood shifts, knows how to comfort me—the best partner i could ever ask for. he then told me that before transitioning, he tends to cry a lot and feels things deeply. don’t get me wrong, his sensitive nature is what made me fall in love with him. but now that he stopped, his hormones are all over the place and i got taken aback. back then, while i can tell na he’s a tender soul, composed pa rin naman siya. but now, our relationship has been rocky because of the frequent meltdowns. he even tried to break up with me because he didn’t want to pull me down with him daw. i tried my best effort to be compassionate and understanding, until he decided to take testo again, in hopes that it’ll stabilize his emotions kasi he says that he misses the time that he makes me happy and loved :(
i’m not against him taking testo. i love him regardless if he’s on it or not. i just think that it’s an unhealthy coping mechanism, but i don't think my thoughts are valid since i don’t have a vast knowledge in this area. have you guys went thru the same thing? thoughts?
edit: this is a new account since mutuals kami ng partner ko sa main reddit account ko. we met here on reddit actually, haha.