u/Calm-Kaleidoscope-27

Help me ladies....

My husband totally forgets my existence around his parents... whenever I bring stuff that bothers me about his parents...he defends them...and tries to make me believe that I misunderstood it... I'm tired of it...he just goes blind...his mothers snarky remarks...he just doesn't see....its so to the point...that I feel invisible around them....in my own home.. I'm too tired to always bring it up and getting labelled as wrong...or misunderstanding....I'm done...in a day we don't even spend time together he is glued to his parents until they sleep...and we just go day by day with no conversation at all....if I bring it up...he refuses to even accept it ....and says I'm making it up....I'm so tired...but i really want us to have a meaningful conversation...i understand he wants to spend time with his parents but he can atleast spend some time with me.....what do I do...there are so so many little things piling up...and I just feel ..taken for granted

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u/Calm-Kaleidoscope-27 — 4 days ago