u/Candy_Katty_

Am I Overreacting about my friend spending too much time with her Best friend?

I (16F) have a friend (14F) who I will call Emma, she has her own friend who I will call Mia. She has known Mia since she was young and I just recently became friends with her not even a year ago yet. She is really the only person I am comfortable hanging out with at the moment, and I love doing so, but whenever Mia comes around, She leaves me to go and hang out with her. We all go to school together and I eat lunch with the two, and Emma doesn't talk to me at all when Mia is around. I find it frustrating how whenever Mia comes around, I become invisible to Emma, or at least I feel like I am. And I can understand how they were friends way before I came along, but it still hurts to see the person I hang out with the most immediately Ditch me for another person.

The other thing that bothers me about the whole thing is that when I am alone with Emma, she will talk shit about all of her other friends (regardless if I am also friends with them or not) and she even talks this way about Mia, but still hangs out with her more than me, I know I'm jealous but at this point I have the feeling she is probably talking shit about me and I dont know what to do at this point, all of her other friends have also had issues with her spending so much time with Mia. I feel like I should just stop being friends with her, and I am planning on switching schools after the summer so we will probably drift apart naturally.

Also, I know I am very young and I also apologize for complaining about this on the Internet, I just want someone's opinion from an outsider's viewpoint.

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u/Candy_Katty_ — 13 days ago