u/Capable_Cycle_1909

Boyfriend(16M)'s parents don't seem to care/worry about his wellbeing, how can I(16F) help him/how can I change this?

context: My bf is 16M, I'm 16F, we've been dating for 3 years now and met outside of school, I have a good, but not close, relationship with his parents and they approve of our relationship, but often put my boyfriend down in multiple situations (they belittle him, and basically think he's not worthy of being my boyfriend, think he isn't smart, isn't talented, etc.)

Recently, I've been growing a slight resentment towards my boyfriend's parents due to their apparent lack of care for my boyfriend's wellbeing or health. We're both still considered minors in my country, and are in the same high school, about to graduate. Currently, we're in a long, crucial exam period that will determine our college apps, uni offers, etc.

My boyfriend gets sick often - most of the time it isn't anything serious, but he always tells me about his symptoms, and because I get worried, I end up pestering him about medication, rest, as well as going to the clinic/hospital if necessary. Throughout these incidents, there have been multiple times where he tells me that his parents downplay his sickness, saying things like "its just a simple flu" "just go rest", & hesitate to bring him to see a doctor (his family is financially comfortable, his parents have a stable, good income)

Today, he complained about symptoms that I consider severe: loss of taste, lack of appetite, body pain, head ache, stomach pains, dizziness, sore throat, flu, etc, and he has an exam tomorrow at 2pm, while my exam ends at 1:30pm, so I won't be able to care for him or help him before his exam (the moment my exam finishes, he will be going into the exam hall)

The thing that frustrates me the most is that his parents downplayed his symptoms, calling it a "common cold" and told him to just "go rest" again - this exam period is crucial and he still has multiple exams to take after tomorrow, so I don't understand why it was so hard to bring him to see a doctor - they ended up delaying and only decided to bring him tomorrow, right before his exam, because he suddenly got a slight fever

I'm just really frustrated with the lack of responsibility from his parents, and I have a feeling that they don't sincerely care about my boyfriend's health - I have no idea what I can do as a minor myself, other than bringing medication to school for him, and helping him in school - When he goes home, I'm completely helpless against his parent's negligence - should I just text his parents and voice out my concerns, or would that make them upset at my boyfriend/feel like my bf was talking bad about them to me? I'm also worried his parents will end up disliking me and stop accepting my relationship with him

TL;DR! My boyfriend's parents repeatedly disregard my boyfriend's health and ignore him when he speaks up about it, how can I change this?

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u/Capable_Cycle_1909 — 4 days ago
▲ 2 r/wherecanibuythis+1 crossposts

I need help finding a navy hoodie, sweatpants and top set I found on tiktok

Saw these navy blue sweatpants, navy blue hoodie with yellow text, and navy blue tank top with white straps and collar on tiktok but FOR THE LIFE OF ME I CANNOT FIND IT ANYWHERE I SPENT 20 MINUTES DOING GOOGLE IMAGE REVERSE SEARCH

I'm gonna attack links to the tiktoks I saw with the clothes in it idk if its allowed:
https://www.tiktok.com/@stivvvee/video/7632088371837291796?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7618453769277900306

https://www.tiktok.com/@stivvvee/video/7631951904951733525?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7618453769277900306

https://www.tiktok.com/@stivvvee/video/7631951431712410900?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7618453769277900306

https://www.tiktok.com/@stivvvee/video/7634238411792076052?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7618453769277900306

I saw the clothes from stivvvee on tiktok (rita) but I'm pretty sure none of her posts even on instagram detail anything about where she gets the clothes in her posts from 💔

the back has text that says "live in love" i think and the front I cannot make out the words or logo

u/Capable_Cycle_1909 — 5 days ago
▲ 6 r/sixthform+1 crossposts

Currently, I've chosen to take Maths, Further Maths, and Physics + EPQ for my A-levels in my new school

I've been thinking about pursuing software engineering as a career path lately, but I barely have any knowledge of computer science as a subject, and I didn't take it for my IGCSEs, so I don't know if I'll be able to choose the subject for my A Levels studies next academic year

Also, a few of my schoolmates want to choose Chemistry as a fourth A-level subject, and they're also thinking of pursuing engineering.

I'm not 100% sure about what career I want to pursue in the future, so I was also considering taking Chemistry as a fourth A-level subject - I know many people advise against it and warn about how "content-heavy", confusing and hard it is, but I really want to keep my choices open as I want to get into a good university without regretting not choosing an A-level subject, when it's relevant for my career path, which I'm still unsure about

Do most A-level Edexcel schools allow you to choose CS as a fourth subject for a-levels when you have no foundation for it from IGCSEs? Is taking Chemistry as a fourth A-level subject really that bad a choice?

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u/Capable_Cycle_1909 — 17 days ago