u/Capital-Swordfish608

I’m a foreigner married to a Malaysian Chinese. Found out about the affair recently and the mistress which is his colleague already admitted. Despite the hurt and betrayal I still want to fix the marriage, went back to my country just to heal. But I still have this gut feeling that they are still seeing each other so now I am asking for divorce. Which he also accepted but when I keep asking for updates he said he never filed yet.

Would love to hear your advice.