I regret not saying anything sooner about my friends grandpa
I have a friend of mine who recently lost her grandad. She made an insta post about it. I saw it. I chose not to send any messages about it because when I lost my grandparents, any mention of them made me break down, and I just didn't want to do that to her.
She messages me a week later saying that she saw that I saw the post and is very upset that I didn't message her to say my condolences. I realise now that she wouldn't have made an insta post about it if she didn't want condolences.
I just feel terrible, and I realise that the actual real reason I didn't message just looks like a terrible excuse since again why would she make an insta post if she didn't want anyone talking about it. But in actual honesty, I am just that stupid.
I sent a message back explaining myself and giving my condolences, but I imagine that she probably hates me now, and that really sucks. But it's entirely my fault, and I accept that.
It just really eats me up inside that I am just that fucking stupid.