Asking for advice: my friend of 36 years wants me to lop off my man hood and become a lesbian woman. I don't.
I (38m) have been friends with this girl sense we were 2 years old. In 2020 she (original a male) came out as trans. I accepted her. I was the first to use her new name and pronouns. Over the last 6 years she has been getting more hostile towards anyone not originally born female or those who haven't transitioned to female. She's also made racist comments. At times I can't help but think I'm talking to a trans Hitler. She often will say things like "I guess straight people are aloud to exist too." In that pissy HOA lady kinda way....so, my question is. How do I get her to back off the everyone needs to be a woman or die thing...and maintain the 36 year friendship. Or is it over??....I hate to loose a good friend. But, I can't support the 'convert to my ways or die' thing she has going.