Gf F32 not over her ex? Me M31
For starter we met In person but we are currently living in different countries, im in Canada and shes from Korea, her last relationship lasted for 3 months, ended around july last year.
happened in Australia while she was living abroad.
First time we talked about exes was probably around 4 months of us talking and sharing feelings for first time. We shared why it ended, etc. on her end, she said she didn't want a LDR and something she only confessed later on.
Now, a month later, we were talking about LDR, and she mentions him again, saying that our "connection is strong and she never considered ldr before, not even with her ex, even though flying to Australia was easier, 3 hours." But she's willing to do it with Me.
Two days after this talk. We are on a call, we are both religious and she was sharing some of her values, that "she is saving herself for marriage" not a second after mentioningt it, she goes" this was the main reason why I broke up with my ex, I was so hurt at the time" conversation got a bit emotional on both our sides, we moved topic and I asked to talk about it some other time.
I told her I felt insecure about "us" whenever she mention her ex, and asked if there might be some unresolved feeling. We called again and she said that now, she doesn't have any feelings for her past, she liked him but their values and religions were different so she broke up with him. She said they aren't in touch and she is not friends with any ex.
I've dated a girl in the past that made me a rebound and it hurt me so much when I realized she wasn't over her ex, I also had painful breakups but I dont think its necessary for me to bring it up, I feel like it's common respect, wsince we already shared the reasons why we broke up in the past
All in all, we talk a lot about future, and I can tell she's invested, this conversation happened a month ago and it just got back to my mind.
We've had so communication issues because we handle things differently but I trust her and I just want to know how I should handle it