u/Carcar_122

I just constantly feel gaslit in this LC/NC world with Parents. I know how I felt. I know my childhood sucked. I know I was scared of them as a young adult. But I consistently gaslight myself into thinking that they are not that bad. That I'm overreacting. That I wasn't clear enough with them why I'm not talking to them. My siblings all still talk to my mom and dad and go over for dinner and the like. They all spent holidays together, and I'm the odd duck.

They just think I'm selfish. They don't even know/ seem to acknowledge that they messed up and hurt me. How do y'all handle this discord between people who used to mean something to you and now you are the villain in all of their stories?