u/Careful-Caramel-9409
Realized I had $9k in uninvested "cash drag". Automated my tracking, but now I have a massive AUM fee dilemma
I do bi-weekly buys across multiple accounts (my Roth, wife’s Roth, a 401k, and a joint taxable). Because I usually buy whole shares or set fixed dollar amounts, there’s always a little cash left over in the settlement funds
I never thought much about it until I did a manual audit this weekend. Turns out, all those leftover "tails" added up to almost $9,000 of dead capital just sitting in cash earning zero interest.
I realized I needed a way to track all these scattered cash balances automatically so money doesn't just sit there rotting to inflation. I'm currently testing a few aggregators: looked at Empower and 8figures. I haven't fully decided which one to stick with, but just having a dashboard to spot the uninvested cash solved my blind spot.
But looking at the aggregated dashboard revealed a completely separate, much bigger leak. Our total portfolio recently crossed the $250k mark. About $180k of that is sitting with a traditional wealth advisor who charges a 1% AUM fee
When we started with him years ago, paying a few hundred bucks a year felt fine. But seeing the raw numbers now, I realized I’m paying $1,800 every single year for a guy to basically stick my money in standard mutual funds and ETFs. That 1% is starting to feel absolutely insane for what I’m getting.
I want to fire him, move everything to a standard self-managed broker (like Fidelity or Schwab), and just buy index funds myself.
For those who have fired an advisor or left a 1% AUM platform: how does this actually work mechanically? Can I just initiate an "in-kind" transfer from my new broker so they pull the actual shares over? Or is the advisor going to liquidate my entire $180k portfolio and trigger a massive capital gains tax event?
I really want to stop paying the 1%, but I'm terrified of messing up a transfer thisbig and getting killed by taxes. Would love some practical advice on how to break up with an advisor
Found out our realtor was feeding us completely different stories than what the sellers were actually saying
Just closed on our house last week. During the final walkthrough we got talking with the sellers and realized our agent had been telling us they were pushing for a faster inspection timeline- meanwhile she was telling them that we were the ones requesting everything urgently. Neither side was actually in a rush. She manufactured pressure on both ends, probably just to keep the deal moving and close her commission faster.
We signed everything so it's done. But now I'm wondering if this is worth reporting or if it just gets swept under the rug. Does anyone actually file complaints with the state licensing board and does anything come of it?
Agent hid my listing from her own client because I offered 2% instead of 3% -Florida
Listed my house in Lee County last month. Had a buyer reach out directly saying they loved the listing but their agent kept steering them toward other properties. Eventually found out the agent told them my house "wasn't worth it"- I'm offering 2% buyer's agent commission, not 3%
The buyer ended up calling me directly and said they never asked their agent to stop looking at my place. Feels like the agent made that decision for them without disclosing why
Is this considered a breach of fiduciary duty in Florida? Worth filing a complaint with FREC or just move on?
What should people know before buying a foreclosure?
I keep seeing people get interested in foreclosures because the price looks attractive, but I think a lot of buyers underestimate what they’re actually walking into.
A foreclosure can be a good deal, but it’s not the same as buying a regular home on MLS. The lower price usually comes with more uncertainty, more risk, and less information upfront. A few things people should understand before buying one:
You may not get a normalinspection, or you may have very limited access to the property before buying.The home might be sold as-is, which means repairs, damage, liens, title issues, unpaid taxes, or occupancy problems can become your problem.
The “discount” is not always real. Sometimes the price looks low because the property needs serious work, has legal complications, or the market already priced in the risk
Financing can also be harder. Some foreclosures may not qualify for normal loans if the condition is too poor, so cash buyers often have an advantage. You also have to understand the stage of the property. Pre-foreclosure, auction, REO, and HUD homes are not the same thing. Each one has different risks timelines and ways to buy.
For anyone who has bought foreclosures before, what would you tell a first-time buyer to watch out for?
Every listing says the same thing -updated kitchen, fresh paint, move-in ready -and every time you show up it's the same story The "updated kitchen" is IKEA cabinets installed crooked over original 1987 plumbing, the "fresh paint" is hiding drywall cracks that shouldn't exist in a house this age, and the agent called the basement "full of character" which turned out to mean a sump pump running continuously and a smell I can only describe as "previous owner's problem now."
Last week someone listed a house as "cozy and move-in ready" and when I got there the water heater was older than my car and the furnace had a handwritten note taped to it that said "do not touch zone 2"- nobody could explain what zone 2 was. These houses aren't priced as fixer-uppers, they're priced as if the fresh coat of gray paint actually fixed something, and there's always another buyer ready to pay it anyway
Get an inspectionalways, even if they say it'll kill the deal, and especially if they say it'll kill the deal!
Y'all are sleeping on pre-foreclosure deals while fighting over the same MLS listings. For the first few years I did exactly what everyone else does- pulled lists, sent mailers, competed with fifty other investors on the same leads. Was closing deals but nothing crazy, just grinding.
Two years ago someone in my mastermind told me to shift most of my focus to pre-foreclosure specifically -not REOs, not auction, but that window before any of that happens when the homeowner is motivated and nobody else is knocking yet. Took 30 days to see the difference. Haven't looked back. Pull tax delinquent and missed payment lists through PropStream or PropWire, target owners who've held 7+ years usually 50+, pull by county not zip code. Been using foreclosurehub lately for early pipeline monitoring - catches properties before they hit public records and skip tracing is included which saves a decent amount monthly. Comp on Redfin, Propelio if you're in a non-disclosure state. If you're grinding and not closing the leads probably aren't the problem- the timing is. Get there before everyone else does
Every agent I talked to wanted 5-6% on a $300k property and I just couldn't justify it, so I listed it myself on Facebook Marketplace and a couple local investor groups. Got more inquiries than expected in the first week, mostly cash buyers which is exactly what I wanted. Took about six weeks to find the right person and I was completely upfront about everything that needed work- buyer actually said most sellers hide stuff and it was refreshing, which I think is what closed the deal honestly
Signed at asking price, paid a flat fee lawyer $800 to handle the paperwork and that was it. Kept $17k that would have gone to someone who basically just forwarded my listing to their contacts. Never going back
Already thinking about doing the same on my next one. Anyone else gone the FSBO route on investment properties or did I just get lucky?