u/CarefulPhilosopher26

Hey!

I am looking for something quite particular and I'm not quite sure if this is the right group to post in, but I'll give it a try! This post is a bit lengthy, but well structured. We call that Berufskrankheit in German..
Maybe it will help me weed out people who are just looking for a quick fuck.

About me:

General
As stated above, I am 22 years old :3 I have recently started working in public government administration and will soon be studying again. I enjoy reading, nature, debates, photography, going to the sauna and much more. Good food, spending time with friends and going swimming makes me happy. Also, very much in love with oceans and beaches.. and my cats! How could I forget..
Ever since I was young I have been very ambitious and driven and so I have started only recently to allow myself to break out of this shell and make (more) place for the soft and silly girl inside of me :)

Looks
I am mixed, 157cm tall, have brown eyes and brown curly hair. Usually it's straightened or manually curled and reaches slightly past my shoulders. I have a few tattoos that have been done out of poor judgement by 16 year old me. They aren't visible in everyday life for the most part.
What I like most about myself is my skin, because it's very soft; and my eyes.

Additional information
I speak fluent High German and Swiss German, English, decent French. Weirdly, I can understand Spanish quite well.

So, enough of me, here's what this post is about:

I am looking for a man
who will hold me in his arms and comfort me while I cry. (I know: F4A.. more on my bisexuality below)
He should either let me cry before getting intimate or after I came, when I'm a quivering, raw and vulnerable mess. I imagine me laying in your arms and you stroking my hair, wiping off my tears. You then start tracing the outlines of various parts of my body with your finger, softly rubbing my private parts, telling me that I've been doing so well (etc.).!
I want to feel safe and secure. Eventually this could lead to penetrative sex, as I've been feeling very sexually frustrated lately and desperately need to be fucked.

An absolute No Go is any pressure to do something I don't want. If I cry, I cry and if we end up getting intimate, I more than welcome that, but if we don't, then that's fine too. Ideally you come with the expectation of us not sleeping with each other, so neither of us feel pressured to do so. We can eat something or have a coffee or take a walk before meeting, so we can both make sure we are comfortable with each other.

About you:

You have a caring, nurturing and gentle side.
Perhaps a guiding sort of nature to you. You're emotionally intelligent and grounded. You receive mostly by giving pleasure (ideally in a (semi) dominant way). You're okay with, or even welcome, me showing very soft behavior at times. Body wise I don't really have a preference. I do enjoy dad bods and dark eyes, but this is very flexible, because the most important factor is your personality and how we feel around each other.

Generally, I am very open towards any body type/ look whatsoever. Preferably around 23 - 58 years old. If you think we might match, please reach out to me. I am looking forward to hearing from you :3

Not sure what to write? Which part of this write up resonates with you the most? What do you like to do for fun? What would your ideal wishes be if it came to us meeting up? Any No Go's?

Why F4A?
I am bisexual, but have never been 1:1 sexually intimate with a woman and although I would love to-it intimidates me tremendously. I'm usually not very shy, but I believe I'd be very shy in this regard and would need lots of reassurance and proactivity, which might be a bit tedious for my counterpart.
If this is something you don't mind then please text me. Hearing from a woman would be amazing.

Thank you for your attention on this very important matter (and getting through this lengthy introduction) :P

I look forward to hearing from you 🐇⭐️