My "husband" left me 3 years ago after I gambled online
I know I lost his trust financially
during our separation, he also has admitted that he infidelities on his part. Don't meet each other since we were 18 and not despite the marriage so I definitely told him to go experience. He definitely did.
He uses those words against me constantly and making me feel small
I also told him how much I never wanted to be the other woman and please don't treat me that way. But he has done his thing and I have to respect that.
I am in GA gambler's anonymous trying to get better so I don't ever let that happen again! I have killed it at work and helping our family. Well, he has a beautiful apartment. I don't think he can afford the apartment anymore so he's forced to move back home.
The dynamic is really weird and I don't know what to do about this.