u/Careful_Kangaroo6034

I tried to get my narc to help me parent last night. Literally just asked him to speak, just soeak to our son. Que a narcissistic rage, throwing things, etc and I'm told I need to just do as I'm told. If anyone has small children and are questioning things: get out now if you're able to at all. They will not help you or be a parent whatsoever. They will only do whatever they can to make the child "like" them more. So pretty much the opposite of whatever you're asking or saying. They will use their own children as triangulation pawns to get to you and it works. Bc you're trying to raise a decent person a human being. They're trying to look in a mirror.