u/CatLegal5397

My fiance [30M] is giving me [30F] the silent treatment

Hi everyone. I could really use some advice on how to move forward after an argument with my fiancé.

English isn't my first language, so I apologize for any mistakes.

My fiancé (30M) and I (30F) had an argument a few days ago after I brought up something that had been bothering me. I brought up the fact that he is a bit too friendly with the opposite gender and that it rubs me the wrong way. The conversation became aggresive, we both said mean things to each other, and afterward I realized I could have approached it much better. I apologized the following day by text, but I haven't received a response, and he hasn't spoken to me since.

I'm not used to this kind of situation because it comes off as immature on his end, so I'm unsure what the best next step is. Part of me thinks I should respect his space and wait until he's ready to talk. Another part of me wonders if I should send a more thoughtful apology since my first one was written while I was still emotional and it was not that heartfelt. Do I give him time and expect he will want to talk in a few days or do I send a follow up apology text?

I'd really appreciate any advice.

TLDR: we had a fight and now I don't know how to deal with the silent treatment

reddit.com
u/CatLegal5397 — 24 hours ago