u/CatPuzzleheaded8398

I’ve been procrastinating. Deliberating. Thinking over and over and over again. For months.

I’m three years into a long distance relationship. I fell out of love. He’s a phenomenal person, and I’ve tried so hard to bring the spark back, but I can’t.

We’ve discussed it. He says “it’s fine” that I’m not romantically or sexually attracted to him. But I want out. I’ve felt so distant—we’ve gone on two dates, ever—and I don’t want to do it anymore. No talk of closing the gap either. We feel like decent friends.

When do you know it’s time to call it quits?