Too many dates ?
Hi everyone! I (F22) joined hinge about a month ago in a major city. I’ve had quite a bit of luck and have gone out with 6 guys, and 4 of those turned into second dates. I’m not complaining about this at all, but wondering how others handle having so many dates at a time? I have pretty strict criteria for matching with someone, so I think I have that going for me
I feel like my weekends have become marathon days of making plans with the guys I’m getting to know. I try to be strict about letting someone know when I’m not interested or don’t see any potential. I’m pretty social and work in a sales role so I feel like my outgoing personality does a lot of the heavy lifting.
I genuinely enjoy getting to know new people and going to new places, so I’ve had a lot of fun with Hinge! I just don’t want to waste anyone’s time (I promise I’m not intentionally doing that). I would like to find a serious relationship, so I’m trying to be very intentional with matches and dates.
My questions for others:
- How do not get overwhelmed with scheduling dates?
- What could I do to not get fatigued by dating?
- Should I have a hard rule for ending things after a certain number of dates if I don’t see potential?
- Any other suggestions for finding a serious relationship on hinge?
Thank you all!