u/Cautious-Ferret-1857

I recently met a guy through an arranged marriage setup.He actually seems nice and open-minded especially because I’m divorced and he’s never been married,yet he never made me feel judged for it.But the more we talked the more I realized that even genuinely good guys can still be very traditional when it comes to cooking,household work and expectations from women.That’s honestly such a turn off for me.I want a partnership where responsibilities are shared naturally not a dynamic where the woman is automatically expected to manage the home And even if the guy is somewhat progressive, the family usually isn’t.