Un(Natural) Affair- I need answers- Contact me
My long-term partner met a girl start of this year at a growlers Concert (we both went to by the way) and was chatting to her for months. (I don’t care if he sees this). He sent her a birthday card and a record and I believe she cut him off (you go girl!). I feel if this didn’t happen it would have continued. He can’t be honest to himself about his feelings and what it was.
I just found about it but have no idea the real extent etc. I need answers for closure so I can move on. It was all played down and I couldn’t see anything for myself but I feel it was more involved than he makes out and justifies. I am really hurt. We have a family. I need to know if he is still lying to me and wanting me to forgive and forget straight away because there is so much more he isn’t being honest about. Please, M, message me. If I even spoke to anyone he would be so betrayed but he can’t own his actions and minimises it all and wants me to just forget about it.
I can’t see what was said. So much was hidden and deleted and secret. I need to know the truth before it breaks me apart. This is the only hope for our family please. I hold no anger to the girl. It is completely my partners fault and I need to know the truth to force him to be accountable for how badly he has hurt and betrayed me. Our family and marriage will be torn apart if I’m not able to start processing this.