I think my friends don’t like me, need friendship advice!!
Hey, I’m 16F and I need some advice on my relationship with my friend group. Even if it’s just one person, I just need to know what to do.
Ive been in this school for almost three year, in my school before, I didn’t have many friends to it was a pleasant surprise to see that everyone was kind here. But I’m noticing some patterns when I’m around some people. Like ignoring what I say, talking over me, and not actively including me. I kind of get it, sometimes you just don’t have the energy to put into others and no longer want to be friends with them but this is too sudden.
I want to address this with them as I’m a communication first kind of person, but I think they’d gaslight me or just get defensive and act as if I’m making a big deal. I’ve been getting this kind of behavior from one specific girl who I distanced myself from quickly but to get it from the rest is just surprising.
like I said, I didn’t have that many friends in my old school, so I’m okay being alone, and there’s only a month of school left. But it’s really getting to me, even though I know it’s temporary and “stupid teen stuff.” If anyone has been in the same or a similar situation, feel free to reply. I’m happy with any advice given.
TL;DR: My friends started acting distant and it starting to get to me.
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