Spouse sober 2yrs W/O Therapy..
Has anyone had any experience with a spouse who quit drinking, “cold turkey” without receiving any type of therapy?
We have always had a very happy & loving marriage, despite his drinking.
His drinking began at a very early age due to childhood abuse, trauma and a lot of other issues that have never been addressed professionally.
Out of no where, I woke up one morning with a target on my back!
Within the past several months, he has become mentally & emotionally abusive towards me. I mean, VICIOUS! He constantly says things to me and then turns around & says he never said them. He’s also become very narcissistic! Constantly screaming at me, manipulating every conversation we have, extremely angry, bouts of energy, weeping, refuses to take accountability & blames me for everything.
He absolutely refuses to get help and insists that I’m the ONE who needs help! He also claims that he’s “cured!”
Can any one help me & give me some advice?