u/Celestial_Valkyrie

So the salon I used to go to, I'm not anymore. It's a very famous franchise. But they treat people so rudely and arrogantly. They pull out every single feature of a person which is not even a problem. And then they'll suggest random treatment. For example I have wavy to curly hair, it is unmanageable at times. I'm okay with it. But those bhaiyaas of that salon will always tell me to get Botox or Smoothening done. They pressured me so much that I left the salon all together.

Then I found another salon. Ngl it's good. The staff behaviour is good, the hairdresser talks and listens calmly. But recently I went there for a facial and a haircut. The facial was okay okay ish. It's my first time getting a facial. So I didn't know what to expect. But chalo I let it go.

Then when it was time for my haircut that same didi who did my facial, came to wash my hair. Things got a bit ugly from there. I didn't like the hair wash firstly. She asked me if I needed deep conditioning. I said no, so she started telling me "ma'am your hair is so brittle and rough, the hairdresser won't be able to even cut it, how can someone cut hair as frizzy as yours, get a conditioning, get a spa etc etc" . I was so angry at her because of that behaviour. Why do you always have to bring negative things for your money, the conditioning was for 100 rupees add on. So I just thought, was that 100 rupees truly worth those statements? And it's not just your hair, it's everything you have from head to toe.

So I work as a private tutor, I got one student who passed his board exam last month. Already when he completed his exam in Feb, there was an issue with the fees and all. We all know how some parents don't want to pay us properly. I genuinely thought they'd give me from their side. But they didn't, and after completion of the exam, I finally asked them for my fees after 2 months. They didn't make any scene, they actually gave me my money. But I had to go and get it from their house. Then they told me to teach their kid for an entrance exam from the upcoming week, and when the week arrived they declined it and told me that their kid still cannot decide their subject for further education of college which in my opinion is valid at this stage.

But after a month they hired me again. So I restarted teaching there. And honestly we all seek job, so no way I was going to reject it. But then after studying for a month, they again are saying that their kid is unsure about subject and as he didn't get in any "good" college's first official published merit list, he is extremely heartbroken, and now going for a completely different course where he can achieve it with more ease, and they are ready to pay more for the private college fees. Now I know it's their decision and all, but there is a lot of "dragging me in process too" happening with me too. Which I genuinely am not appreciating at this point. One time you're hiring and trying to overshadow the payment, then hiring and declining, then again hiring and declining. It's their life, their choice. But I feel insulted at this point.