Y'all have given Rasit a pretty pass
I don't necessarily hate the guy, but he's said some pretty concerning things... yet every time I see him discussed here it's basically just thirst-posting. Stuff like him immediately asserting his dominance over the house, requiring his fiance to submit to his demands, getting unquestionable control over who his partner is allowed to see or even speak to over the phone, getting drunk and confrontational with Mallorie's friend when they're trying to throw a welcoming party for him, threatening violence, and pushing her to send money to his family are all pretty significant red flags, but every time I see a post about Rasit get traction that stuff is all ignored in favor of lusting after the guy and fantasizing about him because he's hot.
Think of it this way: if Rasit acted exactly like Rasit, but looked exactly like Shea, he would be Public Enemy Number 1 on this sub and everyone would be begging Mallorie to run for her own safety.