r/90DayFiance

I don’t understand why she is so emotional and crying over this. What she did was so damn weird and unnecessary. She had a secret life basically and gave these children up for adoption and kept it from Jamal. I’m sure getting past that was hard enough, but then once she starts communicating with the son she catfished him? What would make her want to do that? How can you feel so guilty and carry around the guilt for 30 years and then you start a whole new issue. What she did was so insane. The first interaction she had with her son to try to build a relationship was then ruined by her catfishing him. That was a premeditated and thought out thing she did and it just makes no sense. What is going on with this lady? Then instead of owning it and explaining herself she wants to be the victim and cry! Enough Kim damn be the adult be the mom and comfort your sons because you did them both dirty.

Not buying this, him ‘giving permission’ to get makeup done and he’s opposed to plastic surgery and beauty treatments- hello! we’re talking about someone who is 90% plastic already and claims nobody will control her?What is the angle on this contradiction about ?
I’ve got my theory what’s yours?

I feel like Brandan and Mary are pretty awful with their whole fake cancer GoFundMe thing, but Luis and Leida were pretty awful too and clearly had ulterior motives the entire time. What do you all think?

I dont care for Sophie but i care for Chisme lol

Looks like she first interacted online in October 2025 (from the time line it looks like they met at fashion week but can't confirm) then apparently made a hard launch in Dec 2025.

Here's all the images i found of them together, looks like typical aesthetic kind of relationship but... hope it works out 🤷‍♀️

Unedited pic. Just took it while watching the episode.

I give Trish kudos for keeping her child’s face off of social media. She shared recently on her IG that she’s “back in business” doing some modeling in Madagascar. As long as she’s staying far away from the Ick 🫣 IMO having experienced it myself, she’s got that glow of a mother that’s happy and living her best life.

Who cares if she’s a single mom? That little guy is what’s important & he’s here. If she’s a great parent to him & puts him first that’s all that matters 🩵

There's some part of me that wants to skip this relationship completely because of how predictable this is going to go. He doesn't post her, won't show his movies to her, she met him as a tour guide 😆 Does anyone else feel the same way?

Having been abandoned by my mother at the age of 4 and helping raise my disabled older brother who lived at home with us until he was 31 and extremely low functioning I know it would be hard to do again and I understand her position. It’s why I am so in awe of mothers because I know it’s a big choice and I know most would say it’s the best choice they ever made. Although I still say I never say never about kids I understand her position. I was 5 and had already
Mentally surpassed and was helping my dad raise my brother. I saw what he went through, the challenges, the working and having 2 totally different kids with different needs, and the crisis of faith-it was a lot. Parenthood is a lot! And I give parents all the credit in the world

Do we really think that Coltee got a job as a game developer, or is this just talk? I ve heard him refer to himself as a software engineer in the past even though he was let go around Covid and wasn't working at the time so Idk if he just refers to himself as one regardless of employment status.. but he did say he has a job. I would be curious to know how went from being homeless living with Courtney s boyfriend to having his life back together in a few short months. But crazier things have happened.. Beercan for e.g won $50k which happened to be the exact same amount of debt he was in after covid/ gambling it all away 😄

Just finished watching pt 1 of the single life tell all. Peace and love to Kimbaaaaaly but isn’t she being hypocritical about Liz and Jamal? She’s always flirting with Jamal’s friends especially Josh.

Liz and Jamal are within the same age range, it’s not that weird. Josh is way younger than Kim and her son’s friend. Granted they didn’t sleep together but you think she’d go for it if Josh was really down? The flirting is so uncomfortable in front of her son but yet she goes crazy on Liz. Seems a bit unfair to say the least! Did anyone else think this?

I've never seen an Episode of the Tell All where someone was completely ostracized from the cast like Colt. To me I found it sad that they were all pretty much ganging up on him, but when this scene came up in the end I found it hilarious 😂. Long live Colt!

I genuinely feel sorry for this beautiful little baby Matilda. I hope she’s OK and her parents overcome their differences. (This is from 90 day diaries s8 e2) It’s hard for me to tell, but do you think that Matilda will be ok? It’s hard to watch.

It’s been bugging me since the first episode, finally figured out what she reminds me of in this yellow abomination