u/ChampionWise617

30F here. Well settled in a Grade A Central Government job. However, boyfriend of five years,34M, is struggling with his career. Everything is settled on my end and I want to get married soon but he isn’t ready, given his uncertain career trajectory. He helped me get through my struggling years and I’m utterly grateful and indebted to him. He’s a hardworking guy but somehow things aren’t falling into place for him. We have our own baggages and carry each other through life but his career confusions do create tensions in our relationship. Is anyone else going through something similar or has some insight to give? Thank you