u/ChanceBar8935

I’ve been sitting on this decision for a while now, I know I have to, we’ve both hurt each other sm and so many things have happened between us. We’ve been drifting apart and things aren’t the way they used to be at all, but still my stupid brain won’t just let him go. I know I’ll miss him too much, I know my life will feel emptier without him. And this isn’t just me splitting, it’s been a decision I’ve known I had to make for a hot minute. I know some things happened between us that has permanently altered how we interact with each other, and he isn’t the type of person I should be so emotionally dependent on bc he just doesn’t have the capacity to handle my BPD (and that’s not his fault). He tries his best but I can tell I’m draining him, and I just feel like it’d be healthier for me and less overwhelming for him if we just parted ways. Has anyone else been in a situation like this where they had to cut off their fp? How did you do it? And how did you cope after?