hey guys. i’ll try and make this as short as possible. i’m attending a concert with my best friend tomorrow (sunday), which has been stressful to organise in itself due to shitty slow replies. anyways not the point. i mentioned in passing about maybe going out clubbing after the concert to her and our other best friend. we said it’ll be fun but no plans were actually made. however, my family had made plans instead so i wont be able to go out after the concert bc of the early start. i said this to them literally the day after we “made plans”.
anyway, today the friend coming to the concert was like “wait are we not going to go out after anymore” and i said that i’ve already said i can’t and that she must’ve missed it on the group chat. so now the friend coming to the concert and my other friend are saying that they still want to go out. the problem is that this leaves me alone in london late at night when i have a 90 minute journey to get home. im an anxious girlie as it is and this really really makes me uncomfortable. i understand its their life and i can’t control them like they don’t need to babysit me but also they know how much i hate travelling alone, especially at night.
am i right to be upset by this, or am i in the wrong and being selfish? i’m struggling to understand how to feel. i would never even consider it if it was the other way round :/