u/Chance_Tie1193

Me (24m) and my partner (23f) are both bi, and have always been turned on by the thought of others joining us in the bedroom.

Recently we were having in the middle of sex and she started describing how she wished there was another guy there with us. He’d be there for both of us, and it really turned us both on. I’ve also told her before about fantasies of her and another woman and seeing her explore her bi side.

How do I approach a conversation where I bring these into reality? We almost went to a club a couple of years ago but it never happened. But I feel like we’d both be missing out on a part of ourselves if we just kept it to fantasies.