So I have a cat, and I call her my baby most of the time, sometimes my daughter, and my mom seems obsessed by calling me her mom??
Like, I call myself her dad and have asked my mom multiple times to stop calling me like that but she keeps doing it. I don't really care because if my cat is smart, (she's not, if she was) I'm sure she knows I'm her dad 🤓
(for anyone that wants a cat pic, she's on my pfp)
Every time I tell myself maybe I'm too harsh with her, she reminds me that I really don't fucking like her.
So I came out really early and she always calls me by my deadname except sometimes in front of others, so last year when we were on holiday in another country, I told her to be more quiet everytime she would call me because I didn't want anyone (especially since no one might already know me) to hear it and associate me with a girls name. That's one part of it.
Today, we were at the mall and I asked if I could get a piercing replacement (I didn't have my money and she didn't seem to mind buying it, and she really did buy it), the woman selling it to us asked me if it hurt when I got my piercing (nostril), I told her not really and mother jumps in with "yes it did, she [me] got tears and everything" (obviously dumbass, it's my on my nose obviously I'll have tears). When we left, I asked her if she could stop saying stuff like that because it made me seem weak and triggers dysphoria. I was really polite with her so I don't know what happened in her brain, she started yelling at me : "You're being annoying, can't you be happy with anything I do? First it's the name, then that, stop being so negative. Next time I don't care if you don't have your money, you buy your own shit [paraphrasing]"
I was stunned because I didn't yell at her, I just told her like I would speak normally and I tried explaining that I'm trying to be seen a certain way and she makes it harder by making these type of comments.
I don't want any solution or anything because I know our relationship is already fucked but I wanted to share it.
There's that one girl in my school (let's say L), she looks very masculine and everyone in my friend group thought she and her girlfriend were a straight couple. I discovered she was indeed a girl because one of my friends got closer to her since L is a friend of my friend's boyfriend.
I'm so fucking jealous of her, her face looks masculine and she has a flat chest which I especially hate because I feel like it's worst when I wear my binder since it's visible under my shirt and she doesn't have to do anything because her's doesn't show.
I at first wanted to avoid L and her girlfriend (because of everything said above but also because I hate couples) but since my friend is close with them, I don't have much of a choice but to tolerate them. I think I genuinely hate L.