First healthy relationship at 40
....and I don't know if my expectations are real. I want to be spoiled in simple ways from my partner. If he's coming over in the morning, I prefer him to show up with breakfast and my favorite coffee.
If I'm having an emotional day, I want him to ask me what I need and volunteer to sit with me.
I want surprise flowers and thoughtfulness.
I want my nails paid for occasionally. Dates fully paid for- I've had to cover some expenses just to keep dates rolling.
It's 30 days into a relationship...he just shows up. And I'm over it!
Disclaimer - I'm VERY independent and do want a man who believes in a man courting.
u/ChangingNarratives — 7 days ago