Why is it so hard to actually find someone who is sorted and wants to build a life together, knows mutual love instead of just wanting to receive?
I’m 35, Femme, building toward an academic career, financially stable, and planning to start building a home in 4-5 yrs. I’m bi and a single mom my past includes an emotionally abusive marriage, but it helped me understand my identity, and I have a wonderful child that I adore from it. I love kids and dream of adopting another with a partner some day.
Even after all of my past trauma, I have gone into therapy hard, and I feel like I am still more stable than most women I talk to. Because what do you mean you want a wifey like now but can’t trust anyone, won’t commit to anyone, and keep exploring your options forever?
I am not based in India currently, but open to eventually relocating or sponsoring a partner if things get serious.
Hoping to meet for a 26+ woman with a stable, intentional life who wants a long-term “wifey” partnership. Must be comfortable with my bi identity and single mom status. I am loyal, monogamous, and a hopeless romantic… if you hate bi women… that’s your trust issues, and please scroll away.
Not interested in casual, confused, or “just exploring” situations. I value mutual effort, respect, and building a solid life together…and I am hoping for the same. No I am not looking to be anyone’s sugar mama. No I don’t want to pamper you one sidedly. No I won’t always start a conversation on chat because you forgot about me. No I won’t always be the first to compliment and romance.
It has to be mutual.
I am versatile, I love to show affection with words, gestures, and actions. I hope to receive the same kind of love as I give, and that is intense and romantic.