Sometimes I ejaculate while putting on a condom. Before sex we usually make out, I finger her a bit and sometimes go down on her, and I get her really turned on to the point where she’s literally begging me to fuck her.
Sometimes we have sex for 30–60 seconds, sometimes 2–3 minutes, and sometimes I finish while putting on the condom. That one is rare, but it happens occasionally. There was even one time where I couldn’t finish at all.
I’ve tried masturbating before sex and it doesn’t seem to make a difference. As for masturbation and porn, I haven’t watched porn in over a year and I never really masturbate to it anyway. I masturbate maybe 3 times a month, usually just using imagination or when my girlfriend sends me a picture of herself.
I’ve also tried edging and Kegel exercises, although I’m not even sure if I’m doing the Kegels correctly and I definitely haven’t been consistent with them.
I’m 20 and I had sex for the first time about 7 months ago, so I’m still pretty inexperienced. This has been happening on and off since I became sexually active.
My girlfriend is understanding, but I still put pressure on myself because I want to satisfy her properly. Sometimes my ego gets hit because she gets so turned on and is begging me to fuck her, and I just don’t know how to last longer.
Has anyone improved this naturally over time? What actually helped you the most?