It’s been almost 10 months after ending up a relationship of 3 months with a PwBPD. I blocked him in all communication channels and he always finds a way to break it.
He came to my door last evening with flowers and he was apologising and asking for a walk. I told him that I don’t wanna have any contact, asked him to leave and never come back again. He kept staying at the door and knocking. Then he left for short time and came back to the door angry and started kicking the door heavily. Police came and had a talk with him outside. When police left, he came again, kicked the door and left. He sent me 5 emails (going to spam) with all kind of threats and blaming me for his earlier suicide attempts and his death in the future.
I already reported him to the police for stalking and vandalism based on the evidences from last 10 months but it was not a strong enough case to charge him.
I feel unsafe at my own home and I am desperately hopeless. I almost cried at work today. How can I get rid of him?