How to get over a relationship
Hello everyone... I was in a 8 year long relationship that ended about 9ish months ago. We started dating around 21 im turning 30 soon in june, she was my whole world. She came to my house in the morning after we had a argument the night before and I was making us breakfast amd wanted to talk about us and work on the issues but she didnt even come inside. Instead I went to her car and she laid it out all on me, said I was holding her back that she would be a idiot if she gave me another chance and how she drank because of me. She said so many things that she never brought up before ever. It destroyed me. My aunt passed away the day before so everyone was focusing on that and couldn't really be there for me. I dont even mourn my aunt because of my whole breakup,like it cast a shadow over it.
Days past and she came at 5am to drop off my stuff with her sister. I saw her drive up and drop it off....it all happened in 20 seconds. Our lives just over like that.
Her last message is burned into my mind. How maybe im a few months we cab see but its not a promise. How shes tried and now needs space and peace from me.
Ive tried reaching out and she doesnt respond.
How can she just change. How can she just drop me like nothing. It just hurts
Weeks before the breakup she celebrated my birthday and did such a amazing job. Her card to me said my 29 was gonna be the best and she would be there by my side.
I want to move on. I feel like a dumb ass for still loving her and not having any ill will towards her.
Ive done so much better for myself but I dont see the point. She was my world and now shes gone. Even now that im daiting someone else it just doesn't feel the same. Im just a mess and I don't know how to move on. She pulled the rug from underneath me and I feel like the shock of it all is coming back hard since its getting close to a year. Was i so bad of a guy
I never cheated or hit
I would never.
Thanks guys :/