Toxic parents
How you guys deal with toxic yet loving parents...who provides for you financially yet criticize you for having basic needs .. unavailable emotionally only for you on the other hand they're Fully invested in your siblings life whether it's emotionally or justifying every lil irrational money spending....how you guys deal with it? I try to express myself but my pov is too childish for them..they say BACHO KO BARO KA SUNNA CHAHIYE, BARE GLT FIR BHI SUN LO.. few days back one of my Maternal aunt(we all kids dislike her) literally humiliated me for having a pov which is totally opposite of her... something like work life balance..for her housewife to a rich family is way better than having a successful career as a woman. Mind you she herself is a banker and her husband does all the cooking mostly and she don't even live w her in-laws and always bitch about them even tho they seem nice ppl ..and when I said it's personal choice you cannot expect a housewife to be working 24/7 like a maid.. for her independent women should come home after 10 hour shift and cook meal for her in-laws and husband... I've no problem w cooking but dude if a women is earning and her husband is too they can hire maid but for her my pov is delusional...and she's always right... no matter where i go she always try to make fun of me for quitting neet for choosing law as career against my parents choice... always..even tho I cleared clat this year and now I'm going to join NLU in July...and what hurts the most is that I tell my parents all these and they say she's right ..wo bari h bol di to kya hua..and my mother idk she was present when my aunt was arguing with me ..and she was taking her side infront of my whole maternal family..I was crying still she said I make drama everywhere I go..all this hate for me for having a choice...idk how to deal with it...if you have any advice for me ..pls lemme know