I (28M) have been with my gf (25F) for 2.5 years and some time ago I started doubting my feelings for her. To be fair, she never really asked about feelings and we never discussed it, so I didn't really think if I have them or not. But like 2 months ago she suddenly asked me about it, saying she was growing unsure for the lack of reassurance. At first I panicked but I told her that it was obvious that I loved her and she seemed calm after this.
The thing is that I lied and I don't really know what I actually feel for her. I mean, she's really great, super hot. She's very good in bed, she's not like one of those lie down and do nothing girl, she's really into it if you know what I mean. She always treats me with warmth and she's never jealous like my previous girl. She's into the same things as me and she never rejects any of my ideas, she's very smart too, and we get along very well.
The issue is that I feel like she's not really attracted to me. Like, sometimes I ask her if she likes my body etc. and she always says yes, but I don't trust her. I mean, I can see that she looks weird at me, but it's hard to explain. I always push through with my questions and ask about specific body parts and her preferences. I even send her pics of other dudes and I ask her what she likes about them. She always looks a bit awkward to answer and sometimes she claims she doesn't know what to say, but honestly it's hard to believe.
Usually when I push more she eventually breaks and finally speaks the truth. For example, she said she liked different skin colors (I'm white, and I asked her to make a rating). Or she told me I could lose weight in my stomach "for my health".
Recently when I ask her about her preferences, she started to refuse to answer at all. No matter how many times I repeat the question or how I explain that it's just "for fun", she says she's not playing these games anymore or she's not in a mood. I feel like this only further proves my point.
So now I'm confused because I don't want to lose her as we're compatible but at the same time I don't know if I should be with her any longer due to this attraction issue. What would you do in my situation?