Is it okay for someone who knows your parent is supposed is waiting on you guys to finish a mandatory school thing to ask to go somewhere else and make them wait longer?
My friend did this, and it pissed me off so much. Like, didn't even ask. We were at a mandatory school thing, and my mom was doing some work in her office, waiting for us to finish so she could go home (she's in school herself and had finished her workday. She wanted to go home quickly to do homework. She was solely staying so we could have an easy ride back, which my friend knew.) and she texted in the group chat with some other friends to see if they wanted to go out for ice cream after it was over. She didn't consult me, she didn't ask my mom if it was okay if we did something after she dropped us off, she just sent out the invite anyway. And then when I said we can't go because we have someone generously offering us a ride home (she stayed at my house for a few days), she legit said "can't she just wait 30 minutes," as if she wasn't already waiting 3 hours. Nobody else said anything, but I did say in the same chat (someone else asked a question directed at my mom's schedule), I thought what she was asking for was disrespectful. We ended up finishing early, so we went out anyway, and she kept being pissy about it. also legit said "well we told her a later time so why don't we just go out anyway." It felt borderline like that the whole time she was over but this was just the most blatant disrespect in my opinion. Nobody else seems to care so I was curious if I was overreacting. Ig im mostly asking if this is a socially acceptable thing to do bc it felt jarring to only me